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Giveaway - Dareen Hakim Le Petit Clutch

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This has got to be my favourite giveaway ever on my blog. I usual don't get excited about giveaways because let's be honest, I'm not the one taking home the prize, but this giveaway has got me clapping my hands in glee. I have loved Dareen Hakim's designs for a couple years now but I never got around to buying one. They just became another big want on my ever growing wish list, until last week when I finally got my hands on one. I'll have a proper review to show you my latest clutch addition soon, but in the mean time make sure you check out yesterday's post to get a couple sneak peeks of it. It's green, it's gold and oh so fab. I friggin love it. I love all of their designs actually so this is the main reason why I'm super excited about this giveaway. Not to mention their designs have be seen in the very prestigious pages of Vogue, L'Officiel, Marie Clare, Grazia, Harper's Bazaar and so many more. 

Dareen Hakim is giving one lucky MissHijabi.com reader a chic clutch from their popular range. Behold the Le Petit Icon in Slate Croc...
The lush bronze plaque is hand engraved with "Prosperity" in Arabic and is surrounded by croc embossed Italian leather. I can tell you from experience these that Dareen Hakim's designs are pure quality. Yay for leather! I'm actually making a move to only buy leather bags because they last a hell of a lot longer than the usual cheap plastic/synthetic made pieces. I guess it is all a part of growing up.

To be in the running to win this clutch, simply enter in either (or both) of these ways below:

Facebook Entry:
Like and Share this post on Facebook. 

Instagram Entry:
Follow @MissHijabi_Blog on Instagram
Follow @DareenHakimCollection on Instagram
Like and Repost this image from my account on Instagram with the hashtag #MissHijabi

Make sure your posts are set to public so I can see them! I will leave the giveaway open for a month and announce the winner via Facebook on December 31st. Good luck and get to sharing!



Super Cyber Monday Sales!

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Cyber Monday is a once-a-year international sale that a large majority of online department stores and boutiques participate in, all vying for customer attention (and your money!) by offering a big chunky sale off their entire site's products. A lot of companies are doing it but the ones that I would shop from are listed below. I've also added in what percentage discount the companies are offering.

It's such a good opportunity for those to grab a bargain "just because" or a gift for someone else since the holidays are coming up. The sale only lasts until midnight tonight (US time) which thankfully for us Aussies/Eastern hemispherers that means it will take us up until Tuesday morning, so if you are on the lookout for something or just want to browse the sales then click on the links below:

Steve Madden Australia 20% off http://bit.ly/Hr5GOv
Steve Madden USA 35% off http://bit.ly/1jaWZXk
ASOS 30% off http://bit.ly/1jaXkco
Boohoo 25% off http://bit.ly/1apbfDL
Cath Kidston 15% off http://bit.ly/1eGz9z0
Glossy Box 20% off http://bit.ly/18UkpfE
Heels.com 30% off http://bit.ly/1eOBg4B
Luisa Via Roma 30% off http://bit.ly/1apcQd0
ModCloth 20% http://bit.ly/1cMuTg4
Nordstrom 40% off http://bit.ly/1hsEuOC
Revolve Clothing 20% off http://bit.ly/1cMvf6o
ShopBop 25% off http://bit.ly/1hsETk6
Vestiaire Collective 75% off http://bit.ly/18UlNid
YOOX 65% off http://bit.ly/18UlXWX


Style Love: Camilla Belle in Erdem

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Camilla Belle is one of those actresses where you scratch your head wondering what you have seen her in. "She's was in... umm... no... wait, WTF was she in? How do I even know her name? Oh, she's the chick with great brows".

I have seen her in that very historically confused caveman movie 10,000 BC but that's pretty much it. I guess she is more well known for being a classic beauty and avid clothes wearer as she is usually  snapped for her wardrobe choices at random events (totally girly and heavily feminine chic - therefore A+ in my books), this very cute retro look from Turkish brand Erdem being no different. Polka dots, pleats and flowers?! I swoon.

And can I just add how much I adore her classy makeup? I'm not a fan of the over the top punched in the face smokey eye and house paint thick foundation look a lot of girls go for. This simple, barely there, enhanced natural beauty look is perfection in my eyes.


If you have a spare $2,000 laying around (now who doesn't?) you can buy the dress for yourself but if you are like the rest of the world and on a budget then make sure you continue scrolling though my top floral picks below to see some rather ladylike flower covered maxi dresses and skirts all under a nifty fifty bucks. 




Silken Garland + Giveaway

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One thing I learnt early on when I started wearing the hijab was that square scarves do not suit me. They instantly turn me into a village dwelling Russian old woman every time. They suit only a marginal number of people (you've gotta have the oval or heart shaped face for it - if you don't then give up and go for something more suitable) and there is really no use trying to make it work for me when I know it won't so I tend not to bother and instead invest in long rectangular scarves that I can more easily work around my face. I have found however that square scarves work great as bag decorations and as neck scarves. 

Advika, an Australian based company, sent me their Garland scarf - a rather elaborately decorated and hand illustrated luxurious silk twill piece. You know by now how much I'm into florals so it's a good fit for me. The scarf is of superior quality both in make and in material. This ain't no flimsy synthetic scarf, people!

I simply folded it in half into a triangle, threw it around my neck, tied it up at the back and hid the knot under my blue scarf. Such an easy way to add a little more oomph to a plain outfit!

Strung out on the clothes line for a full glimpse at the design...
Such gorgeous hues!


Advika are giving one of my readers their very own silk scarf valued at $165! To enter simply like their Facebook page and then head on over to their website and choose a scarf from either the Bloom or Mosaic collections. Leave a comment below telling me your choice and your Facebook name. Winner will be announced via Facebook on December 22nd. Make sure you also enter the Dareen Hakim giveaway too! 

Details + Links
Silk Scarf ~ Advika
Dress ~ Nour Hijab
Blue Scarf ~ China
Vest ~ JayJays

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Moroccan Kaftans by Sally Kaftan Design

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I've always adored the Moroccan takchita for its womanly silhouette; the wide waist belt enclosing a flowing robe evokes instant regality. Princess Salma of Morocco attends a great deal of formal events in the most gorgeous of stately kaftans choosing to wear her traditional garb instead of forsaking it for Western wear as a lot of other Middle Eastern royals tend to. She was named best dressed at the Royal British wedding; all thanks to her choice of elegant kaftan. 


Loving them as I do, I have tried to find an online seller that makes Moroccan kaftans that incorporate the essence of tradition alongside feminine modernity. I found the perfect kaftan couture in Sally Kaftan Design.

Salima, a native of Morocco, designs gorgeous traditional and modern kaftans that could take you from a casual evening with friends right through to formal attire. Coming from an artistic, design-enthused family, she creates rich and decadent designs fit for a queen that have graced the pages of many online media outlets

I love that she infuses Moroccan cultural dress with modern twists. This gorgeous Zircona sleeveless kaftan features traditional Moroccan design aspects with a fresh summery sleeveless update. The fantastic glimmer-gradient fabric make it a big hit for me. It's actually my favourite design of hers. 


More that I adore....

Faithfully Passion - handmade grey silk thread and hand appliqués.


Pride Amaryllis in a dazzling red/silver display.


The very romantic Lovely Gloxinia


Not into long dresses? Try a short kaftan like the Stunning Acacia for a resort look worn over white skinny jeans for a glamorous night out.


Simple & chic Daisy


Sultana - a bridal option.


See more exquisite designs at Sally Kaftan Designs website, Facebook & Twitter.

Which is your favourite?

A Mini-Week in Malaysia

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I was meant to do this over two months ago but any woman who has kids knows what you plan always gets thrown out the window as life gets in the way. I finally had some spare time (a rarity, I tell you!) and thought now would be a good chance to pump out the second lot of photos from my recent Malaysian trip. You can see the first part, a visit to Langkawi island, here.

It was my third trip to Malaysia. The close proximity to Australia, the general cheapness of flights and sites and the halal options everywhere you go makes it a no-brainer destination for my husband and I when we feel that itch to get away from things for a while. This time we went without kids (first time ever!) and it was pure unadulterated bliss. I felt guilty as hell a lot of the time for leaving them behind but at the same time I needed the break. I was going effing mental looking after babies 24/7.

The chance to actually eat at leisure without having a kid screaming, throwing food at you or trying to crawl across the table just to smash something was an experience I had almost forgotten. Going to the movies and focusing totally on the film and not on your wandering child was freedom in itself, although the only English movie playing was Escape Plan which suited my hubby fine. He laughed in my face sucked in, bitch! style because it was totally his type of movie and not mine (what guy doesn't love some Sylvester Stallone and Arnold Schwarzenegger action though?). I complained and rolled my eyes but secretly I kinda love those shitty B grade action films. What I didn't love was hitting up the snack bar ready to shove buttered salty popcorn down my throat only to find caramel popcorn. WTF? Since when is sugared popcorn acceptable? I settled for some chips that tasted like hardened dust and a bottle of water which I had to take back because it was warm. I'm not usually fussy but I'm not really a fan of heatstroke either and needed the coldest water they had. 

We didn't do any of the usual sightseeing things mainly because we sailed through them on our first visit to Malaysia. This trip was more about sleeping in, enjoying hotel buffets and going out in order to let loose a bit as a couple. 

Enough rambling on. Enjoy some of the highlights of the trip leaving Langkawi for Kuala Lumpur...


Naturally we pigged out as we ate breakfast before departing our resort. I couldn't leave Langkawi without scoffing down a plate or two of delicious Rendeng. Beef curry in the morning isn't really normal by Aussie standards but when in Rome...


We left on somewhat of a rainy day but from the aerial shots I got from our plane seat you would never know. The beaches and the jungle adorned islands scattered in the sea were something else, but the shots I got of the farmlands while flying over the main island in Malaysia were the stunners of the day.






Details from the plane ride (I got a new short focus lens so was happy snapping at pretty much every random little detail).





Once in Kuala Lumpur, we stayed at the Trader's Hotel which was in a really awesome position, being right next to KLCC, over looking the city gardens. On arrival they gave me a bouquet of flowers to welcome us. It was a nice little surprise.


Any time we stay at a hotel the first room I always check out is the bathroom. The one at the traders had a whole lit amber look to it. It was simple but pretty with the added bonus of lollipops waiting for you when you got in.


Bedside reading - is that actually her hair or a wig? It's so damn shiny...





The three days we had in KL were spent eating, shopping (although I barely bought anything for myself) and relaxing. 


One thing I noticed about Malaysia roads is how they manage to get an entire family on the one bike. If you look closely you will see three pairs of legs in the pic below. There's a little girl smooshed between her parents.  I doubt I'd be able to fit just myself on this bike let alone anyone else.


I pretty much lived on iced tea when I was over there. It quelled the thirst and kept the heat away for a bit. In Australia most iced tea is in the form of prepackaged drink bottles - hardly fresh or refreshing. In Malaysia it was proper iced tea - hot lemon tea served over ice cubes. The mix of that last little bit of warmth disappearing into the coldness was heaven.


Street food for us consisted of a lot of fresh fruit. I had some guava, lime, mint and pineapple concotion while my hubby went for mango - what Egyptian doesn't though?



The ice-cream selection was on par with what is offered in Australia. Gelato on a hot day is a must!



After shopping at SoGo (our favourite shop in KL) we headed downstairs to the restaurant section and ate at The Manhattan Fish Market. I hate seafood so ventured on the pasta side of the menu (as I always do).


A cool little fire hydrant outside of our hotel. 


The best part of my trip was the few minutes I spent rekindling my mini-love affair with archery at Berjaya Times Sqaure. I used to do it all the time growing up during summer camps and the like and I was pretty damn good at it. Still haven't lost the touch either. Boastful... but true. It's probably the only sport I would ever take up, given the chance.



Massive lolly jar. Don't mind if I do...


There was a certain section of Bukit Bintang that came alive with a bunch of glitter men and women. Dressed up, all slick with paint in that heat would have killed me. I don't know how they did it, but they were entertaining nonetheless.


A trip to Petaling street and China Town was a hurried rush of people that I was happy to escape. I can't stand crowds, especially when the threat of bag snatching looms (as we were warned). It just puts me on edge and I find I can't really take the time to enjoy the market stalls as there is always someone pushing past you. It gets quite suffocating. 



That night we stopped at a side street cafe/restaurant called Egypt Cafe for dinner - excited to eat Egyptian food. Hands down, it was the shittest Egyptian food I have ever eaten. I'm not Egyptian and I know I could have done a better job. The warak einab (vine leaves) are a favourite of mine and I was sorely disappointed with this offering. 


While in China Town I did manage to get some henna done. The lady was so expertly quick but the henna she used didn't stay on that long - about a day and a half before it totally disappeared. Sadness. The design she drew was so pretty so it was such a shame the henna wasn't the best quality. I would have loved to come home with the prettified hands she set me up with. 

When I was getting it done (in the middle of the busy alley way) about ten people decided to stop and crowd around in order to watch her work her artistry. 


Back in the hotel - my husband taking a pic of me, taking hand-selfies against the gorgeous artwork that hung on our bedroom wall. I took so many pics of it that I will show you guys later!


Our last night was spent inside our room, lounging around in our hotel robes with the obligatory room service meal to keep us company - Australian beef burgers and chicken shawarma. 


Food, people. Food.


Destroyer of flowers...


Last lunch at Pizza Hut KLCC before heading back home to Australia. I loved their fruity drinks! They're more like cocktails than soft drinks.


Holidays and mini-getaway breaks are fantastic for reviving your spirit but the part I hate the most is that after a week of having someone else make your bed, cook your food, drive you around, etc; the return to home and therefore the reality of being your own bed-maker, your own cook and your own driver really sucks, lol. I wish I could be permanently on holidays! How about you?



So Today Was Shit...

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Today was the absolute worst day I have experienced in a while. I nearly didn't mentally make it through. I went to Ikea as they were having a sale on and I wanted to get a little desk set up that I can claim as my own and divert my blogging to my own special area instead of sitting on the couch and dodging climbing children. Usually I would have done this on one of the days one of my children is in daycare so I'm at least a little bit more handsfree but the sale was only on today so off I went.

Like magic, as soon as I arrived both of my kids started hollering. Even the Ikea trolley guy in the car park said "Oh you have a synchronised crying team!". I shoved toys, milk, food, all that I could think of etc their way but nothing worked for very long. As soon as one kid became quiet, the other would start up again. The worst was when they were both screaming - one trying to climb out of his pram, the other laying on the floor like a crazed starfish, kicking and thrashing around. It went on for what seemed like two hours. In reality I know it wasn't that long but it sure did feel like it and to know they were both carrying on for the silliest of reasons made it even more exhausting.

One wanted to be carried the whole time but at the current weight of 16kg that was not going to happen. The pram wasn't good enough. The trolley wasn't good enough. 

The other decided she would get pissed off at everything. Her hot chips were too hot, she cried. She dropped a chip, she cried. I wouldn't let her eat a chip off the floor, she cried. I wouldn't let her climb the desks at Ikea, she cried. I wouldn't let her steal another child's balloon, she cried. I wouldn't buy her a second rocking horse, she cried. I wouldn't let her push the trolley, she cried. I finally let her push a kid's trolley while helping her navigate it, she cried at my helping hand. She nearly rammed it into a lady walking in front of us so I took it off her, she cried. I told her to take out the twelve photo frames she dumped into the trolley because I didn't need them, she cried. It did not stop. She has a speech delay and unlike most kids her age she simply just can't come out and say "I'm not happy with this, Mum. I needed those twelve photo frames for an important pre-school project!". Instead she makes up for her lack of verbal communication by crying.


As their mother I freely admit that they were both acting horribly. I tried my best to get out of there quickly while doing everything I could think of to calm them both down but nothing worked. I struggled so damn much today. It would have been obvious to anyone walking past me that I was stressed out of my mind, trying to control two screaming (at times wildly thrashing) children. A few people made sympathetic comments to me along the lines of "Oh poor you! I don't miss those days!" or smiled understandingly but there were the odd few people who acted like complete arseholes. 

Shocking I know, but I don't need to be told my kids are uncontrollable at the moment. I'm the bloody one dealing with them as best as I can so I know better than you do! One woman gave me the bitchiest look as she took her older child by the hand and walked around us like we were an annoyance in her precious day. I felt like telling her off but I kept quiet. Surely as a mother she had days like mine where every now and then your toddler misbehaves and try as you might you can't stop it. Yes, it happened to be my turn at playing the game of struggling mother/screaming children today. Wasn't that you once, or were your children robotic specimens who had an off button when they got too noisy? 

Another gave me a look of disgust. Same question again - didn't your kids have off days? One thing I noticed was that not a single man seemed to judge me. It was just women. Women, who in their minds have perfect children. Those type of women piss me off. Have a little understanding, compassion, sympathy... anything but negativity for the strangers you pass. You just may (and in this case did) make matters worse. Trust me when I say no one wants my kids to behave more than I do!

Even in the rare second where my daughter decided to be calm and collected I still got shot a shit look from a stranger. I've been teaching her dancing at home lately in order to get her ready for ballet when she hits five years of age, so when she heard some soft music playing she decided twirl on the spot. She twirled once. Seriously... once. All of 0.5 seconds. One tiny toddler pirouette in the walkway made one woman nearly lose her shit. She sighed, she huffed and she rolled her eyes. Really, lady? Really? My child turning as she walked made you come up with that dramatic response? I needed to get out of there - too many cranky people in one place.

Ikea being Ikea and therefore set up like a maze didn't help the situation. You have to travel around and around and around just to get out and even then you have to manouvre through the massive crowd of people politely as you can while your two children vocally invoke the apocalypse. 

By the time I reached the carpet section I had had enough. I stopped to pick up a rug and instead decided to stand there facing the wall for a few seconds whilst having a discreet little cry to myself. It just got too much. My husband is overseas dealing with a health problem, I'm going through a major one myself and to have a shit day on top of that got too much for me. The sheer embarrassment, frustration and stress of it all was more than I could handle.

Seeing people I know there wasn't comforting either. Instead of them walking over and saying "Hey!  Salam! How are you?" to me and bending over to say hi to my kids and distract them for a second or two would have been great. If it was me, I would have. Instead they just stared for the longest time as if my kids and I were performing some dramatic show for their viewing pleasure. Reasons like this are why I don't feel part of an ummah anymore. People just don't care about others. 

Finally leaving and arriving back at home was heaven. They both slept in the car (why couldn't they sleep in the damn shop?!) and as I drove home I had visions of sitting on a couch, piecing together my new Ikea furniture with a relaxing cup of tea by my side. Instead they both started up again as soon as I carried them into their beds. 

I can't tell you how much I am looking forward to bed time tonight...

Have you had one of these days lately?


Summer Fresh Dressing

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It's about 40 degrees here in Perth, day after day. I'm barely leaving the coolness of my air-conditioned lounge room because a one second venture outdoors would mean sweatsville. It's too bloody hot to even consider going anywhere unless I absolutely have to. Bread runs, post office, quick catch up with a  friend unless I fancy going cabin crazy is about all I can manage at the moment although I did manage a morning swim at the local pool the other day and even at ten o'clock in the morning I still came home slightly sunburnt. 

I don't know what it is about this heat, but it seems to me that every year it is getting hotter and every year my clothes seem to get less summer-friendly. That's part of the reason why I prefer to  stay indoors - long sleeves in the Australian summer is effing torture.

I'm finding abayas less and less co-operative so I've been on the lookout for breezy maxi dresses. Of course, the chance of finding long sleeve maxi dresses in stores here is rare so I kinda did a "Hell yessssss!" fist pump when SORA sent me this little baby from label Love to Dress. Perfect colour combo for summer (or spring for that matter) and cool as a cucumber (well at least cooler than my other long sleeve dress options at home).

I chose the turquoise version because the bluey-green is something I am majorly missing in my wardrobe. It also comes in a pink/white and black/white combo but hands down the turquoise is the best. 

Big bonus to this dress? It's lined. I can't begin to tell you how important that is to me. 

I hate buying a nice dress only to find my bra features show through from underneath which usually sends me into manic spin trying to find some sort of neutral slip or satin top to go underneath it in place of proper lining, which can be quite hectic and a waste of time knowing my massive unorganised traits. Having it all there ready for me in one dress is such a plus in my books and shows me the designer has really thought about the dress not just in terms of visual design but also in terms of practicality. 

(Don't mind the ubiquitous baby shot - the little fella doesn't leave me alone to take pics by myself so he ends up in more photos than he should. Camera hog or what?)
This is the third time SORA have sent me something from the labels they sell and each time they have quality pieces so if you're wondering about purchasing any pieces online I can pretty much guarantee a good buy. I've also heard they may be stocking The Sultaness jewellery line soon, which is where I got the fancy hand jewellery from. I also received a few more pieces from the new collection so I'll reviewing those babies soon for you.   


Shoes to match and a bit of pink thrown in for colour blocking purposes. 


And yes, I totally just matched my nails to my dress. Lucky for me it was a 100% perfect match which I can't say about the wedges. Slightly darker, but oh well. Can't have it all, can we?




Details + Links
Dress ~ SORA
Clutch ~ Saint Laurent
Bracelet ~ The Sultaness
Shoes ~ Steve Madden
Baby ~ My womb
Baby suit ~ Bonds
Turquoise nails ~ Butter
White nails ~ O.P.I


Modest Tops at ASOS

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I can never find long sleeved tops that are long enough in the body. I've sort of resorted to buying long sleeved short dresses and wearing them as long tops which perfectly suits the look I'm after. Here are some that caught my eye at ASOS. The body con dresses are great - just make sure you get a size or two bigger to ensure it isn't skin tight. (A lot are currently on sale so the time to nab them is now!)

Scroll through my current picks below. 

French Beauty Buys

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A while ago I went spring cleaning through my makeup collection which was basically an amalgamation of everything I had bought over the years. I came across an Estée Lauder face powder that I remembered buying about eight years ago and realised then I needed to chuck out all my old stuff and start again. Surely having something that old on your face isn't good for your skin? Besides that, being older, getting older and watching my skin get older made me want to update my skincare and my makeup routine/products.

In the last month I splurged on a bit of Chanel while also picking up a cute O.P.I neutral mini trio-pack and some new perfumed goodies.


I hardly ever use a whole bottle of nail polish and nine times out of ten they get old, crappy and end up in the bin after the formula has thickened over its over-done shelf time in my house. Buying miniature sized nail polish is really the way to go for me so I pretty much snatched up this O.P.I trio when walking through Myer one day. 


I went into Chanel at Garden City. The plan was just to buy a foundation and primer but I ended up buying so much more because I loved the natural finish the makeup gave me. 

Here is what I bought...


The essentials were the primer and foundation. I was previously using an Illamasqua primer and although it worked it smelled way too much of sunscreen which really put me off. The Chanel primer actually makes my skin look a little lighter (I have no problem with being a pale face) and more uniformed and makes the foundation sit on top smoothly while filling in my crater sized pores. 

I was matched up to Perfection Lumiére because I wanted a semi-matte look. Not too shiny (horrible on large pores) and not too matte (because my skin is already looking extremely lack lustre due to lack of sleep). It is the perfect shade for me. I really like this foundation for the quality and because it doesn't feel heavy on your skin as other brands can. I don't mind paying that little extra for such an improvement in formula.


I also walked away with a new face powder to set my liquid makeup, a matte bronzer to use as light contouring and a gorgeous tweed blush that is pretty much perfect for fair skin. 


A little perfume doesn't go astray especially when it smells of peonies like this gorgeous L'Occitane spray. I'm not really a perfume buyer (my husband is usually the one who buys me perfume) but I couldn't pass up on this one. I love L'Occitane products - they always smell so damn good! Same goes for the shea butter hand cream I picked up in store. This stuff is hands down the best hand cream I have ever bought. Two nights of rubbing this into my very dry, scratchy elbows and all the dryness was gone. Can't recommend it enough!

Details + Links
Foundation ~ Perfection Lumiére
Bronzer ~ Les Beiges 
Blush ~ Tweed Rose
Nail Polish ~ O.P.I 
Perfume ~ Pivoine Flora
Hand Cream ~ Shea Butter


Finger Bling

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I remember thinking the last time The Sultaness sent me some designs from their label launch that "This girl really needs to get into designing more jewellery pieces" because I loved the pins so much (and I'm not much of a pin lover in general) and wanted to see the same design ethics extended to necklaces and such. This time around I got my hands on three of their new bracelets. I wasn't sure about finger bracelets (is that what they are called?) because I kinda hate my man hands but they looked better than I thought. Originally I pondered that only small boned, dainty lady fingers would suit this style but found the more elaborate, chunkified pieces work well with chunky monkey hands (of which I own two). 


The pink is my favourite because of the colour and thanks to the fact that it is the more dressier of the three. I don't like dainty, fine jewellery as it doesn't suit me so I tend to go for pieces that are either big or big in decoration which this design is. The little jewel is delightful.


The green and gold (Aussie colours) works well with fair skin but I kinda wish it had a big fat blinding jewel in the middle of it like the pink does. 



I'm more of a gold lover in general but what it really comes down to is suitability and as mentioned previously dainty pieces do not suit my large framed hands. They just don't do me any favours. I like the design of this silver piece but it is too streamlined and simple for me to pull off. On a smaller boned hand it would be great though. 


The cool thing about these bracelets is that they are adjustable and the connected ring can go over any finger you would like it too. I wore the silver over my thumb for a non-traditional look and must say it looked prettier than going straight down my middle finger. The other more elaborate designs however looked best on the middle finger due to the layout of the wrist detail.


Even the back of the bracelets are decorated. Painted duck egg not included.


Details + Links
Bracelets ~ The Sultaness
Nail Polish ~ Revlon Knockout
Nail Polish ~ Rimmel Eccentricity
Necklace ~ Katies
Scarf ~ Jeans West

Muslim Shop

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I'm currently going through a phase where I am shelling off my more Arabised hijab clothing in favour of more Western pieces that perfectly match my Australian culture. Because of this, I have started to notice quite a few modern Turkish brands as a lot of their modern takes on Islamic clothing is way more in line with Western standards both in terms of trend and design. 

One online provider I found is Muslim Shop who sell oriental clothing, the usual abaya garb, hijabs,  men's thobes, etc but also carry gorgeous designs from well known Turkish labels. The pieces below really stood out to me for their streamlined modernity and simple femininity.

The pretty peaches, the florals... Oh how I crave this gold trimmed Neva Style dress and the floral printed Tuncay jacket. These colours would suit pretty much any skin colour from the palest to the darkest.


A fresh take on the traditional abaya can be seen in these long sleeved maxi dresses. The slight nautical feel of the first dress is great for all affairs while the hi-low effect of the second belted dress is an easy smart-casual pick for any day to night look.


Muslim Shop have so much more to offer in regards to modesty style, halal household goods, beauty and books. Make sure you check out the rest on their website and follow them onFacebook. 

Went to the Country. Nearly Died.

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Last week my husband and I luckily managed to go on another little getaway by ourselves (read: no kids! *claps and celebratorily dances in a circle*) because although we have been overseas and we've been interstate, we have never been to me outside of Perth and ventured into the other grand regions of Western Australia. We loaded up the 4WD with an esky of water, orange juice and three of the eight sandwiches I made the night before for our three hour road trip (someone got to them in the middle of the night which royally pissed me off but then we did a Macca's run so all was set right in the world again). 

The drive down to Margaret River was peaceful and reminiscent of my growing up in the country. It has been a long time since I saw paddocks, sheep and cows and I forgot how truly beautiful the dryness of Australia is. It's so easy to get caught up in a world where you are surrounded by looming buildings and concrete floors. I even saw kangaroos (although all three were dead by the side of the road so it may not count as wildlife viewing). 




The place we stayed at was The Margaret River Resort - a quaint little country hotel that gave us a room above the pub downstairs which meant we got to listen to drunks singing karaoke all night. At times it was annoying, at times it was hilariously bad. At least the song selection was good.


The best part of the trip was definitely getting a few nature based activities done. I seemed to have married a man who only likes to go shopping, smoke, drink coffee and eat. I hate shopping, I don't smoke, coffee is a drink not an activity and eating... well I'm definitely down with eating but you can't do that all day. Margaret River, being Margaret River meant that the place is full of fun experiences set in the tranquil Australian bush so he basically had no choice but to go along with being coaxed into doing a few things more up my alley than his.

First off, the maze. We didn't even make it all the way to the centre which is the whole goal of the activity. My husband whinged about spending $50 to essentially get lost (he wasn't wrong) and I spent the time laughing at him because I knew from the start his more than predictable response. In the end I got sick of getting lost while walking down dead ends so we double backed, left the towering maze and spent the remainder of the time walking through the gorgeous gardens. It was either that or arson our way out of the greenery in a straight line with a lighter. I had to hold that thought when I remembered that fresh green leaves don't burn and instead we walked/got lost again as we made our exit.






Oh you know... just casually leaning on a rock. My hubby told me to get on it for photo-sake but I declined knowing that I would either split my pants open on the ascent or die a horrible death on the way down. Heights are a serious thing for me.




It was hilarious walking up to this fountain. I had to laugh hearing a grown man exclaim "Ew, she's peeing!" before his wife shot him down with a "Women don't piss out of vases, Steve..."


Is this picturesque or what?!


The maze from above. Kids made it to the centre. I could not. Shame on my puzzle skills.


In the afternoon we stopped by the river, I took pictures of ducks, admired the scenery, killed a few mosquitos and then headed off on the road again to the cliffside covered coast after stopping by Dome for some seafood lunch. It was windy as hell so there was no way I was actually going to go into the water. Besides, it looked like the choppy sea would've killed you in an instant it was that rough. That or the sharks... it seems to be a thing here.



Fish burger for me. Squid salad for him. 




I was really looking forward to exploring one of the many tourist caves that are jotted down the coast. I hadn't been into a cave since my childhood so I was more than excited to drag my husband down to one knowing without asking that there was no way he would have had that experience before.

Turns out it wasn't such a good idea because the stuffy, hot cave air brought on my asthma and I had a massive attack on exiting the cave. My throat just immediately closed up within a few seconds. I remember looking up to the three hundred steps ahead of me that I needed to climb to get out of the cave and knowing I wouldn't make it up five of them let alone all of them. It was so damn scary. Thank God the tour guide had an emergency asthma puffer on her otherwise I would have been screwed. Lesson learned - ALWAYS carry your medicine with you.

Besides nearly dying in massive dark hole, the rest of the experience was cool. Lake Cave was beautiful once inside and quite other worldly. It was discovered over a hundred years ago by this young lass below. I don't remember her name but I thought she was beautiful and her elaborate hairstyle struck me as interesting. We tend to think of the past (especially the 1800's) as a time of blandness style-wise but she proved me wrong.

Her photo tells a story, don't you think?


I left my flash in the car thinking they wouldn't let you use it inside the cave. I was wrong and suffered with not being able to properly focus while producing dim, very blurry photos. Such a shame because this place with its natural reflecting pool was made for epic photographic opportunities.





My cave walking shoes. Pink, of course. 


I had such a good two days away! I actually enjoyed it a lot more than my last proper holiday in Malaysia mainly because we were well away from shopping centres and large crowds. It's so good to get away!

Where do you like to sneak off to when you have the chance?

Things of Interest

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1. Ham Scam and the ridiculousness that is Australia's A Current Affair. (Buzz Feed)

2. According to this language questionnaire I am a native of Florida. (Sunday Review)

3. I love stationary & I love florals so this desk calendar is so me. Might I have one? (Shop Ruche)

4. Gilded coasters or fancy frisbees? You decide! (Shop Bop)

5. Snazzy jazzy 60's pants for $33. I can handle that. (Shop Ruche)

6. It's a bit nakedy but I love this outfit. (Go Fug Yourself)

7. Why do naturally beautiful women slowly destroy their faces with surgery? (DListed)

8. A good tip to always having a clean home. Is it realistic with kids? Methinks not. (Apartment Therapy)

9. The must read books of 2013 (New York Times)

Why I Got Married (again)

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I had converted to Islam when I was previously married and on the day I converted I remember looking at my husband at the time and basically thinking "this will not do". I was serious about being Muslim and even though he was one as well he wasn't practising and further more refused to practice. The alcohol and the women on the side (that I found out about afterwards... grrr) and the drugs and the gambling and the lying and the hurtful deceitfulness were far too attractive for him to give up for a religious, simple life with me. Before we married the things I knew about him didn't bother me so much but as I became interested in Islam they started to weigh heavily on my mind. 

I didn't want a life like that. Not for myself, not for my future. I wanted someone who was serious about their religion so they could help guide me in my own spiritual journey. I wanted someone to stand beside me not just in a physical sense but in a moral and supportive sense as well. So I converted with him by my side and then left his the next day. No regrets, no doubts. I moved on knowing a life with him wouldn't be satisfying or fulfilling in any sense, regardless of religion. I expected to wake up day after day, heart broken. I was waiting to feel defeated. It never happened. Surprisingly some days I actually woke up with a literal smile on my face. I felt so at peace despite walking away from someone I loved while at the same time having to put with shit from family and friends after finding out I had become Muslim. 

I told myself that at age twenty-two I didn't need, nay want, another man and I was going to finish university and go overseas to travel and experience the world and then maybe think about settling down again ten years later when my thirties rocked up. But that didn't happen. Sometimes you make plans for yourself but God has other, better ones in store for you.

Six months after converting I met someone online. Within a week I was blown away by how honest he was. After giving myself over to someone who ended up being a massive liar, I had come to the conclusion that honest men didn't exist. I stopped believing in the possibility and simply classed all men as a bother I didn't need. He changed that perception.

Every day for a week we spoke on the phone for hours. I remember our first phone call lasting six hours. I don't even know what the hell we talked about but talk we did. We didn't sleep. 4 am, on the phone. 6 am, on the phone. 1 pm as I caught the bus home, we were on the phone. After a week of nothing but speech we decided to marry. It wasn't a case of a proposal. The question wasn't asked. There was no jewellery involved. We just came to the conclusion that this was going to happen.

That weekend I flew over to the other side of Australia to meet and marry the man I would end up calling my husband. I didn't care what he looked like. I didn't care what he did for a living. I didn't care how smart he was, what he did for leisure, what interested him, how he saw the world, if he wanted kids, etc. All that mattered was that he was honest and a good person and I really felt that he was. 

I'm not a gullible, naive person. I'm pretty clued on when it comes to the nature of people and I tend to see through a lot of the crap that people present in order to portray themselves a certain way. With him I just knew he was who he said he was... a no bullshit kind of person who said what he thought no matter the consequences, all in the name of truthfulness. I liked that about him and I needed someone like that in my life. 

I remember during our week of talking coming to the realisation that this is the person I need by my side and while he was yapping away on the phone to me I silently pleaded with God to let me have him after tossing up between trying this marriage thing again so soon or delaying it in order to "live my life" and perhaps miss out on the chance on finding that rare honest, devoted husband later on in life when I had decided it was time. I made a leap of faith that I have never regretted.

Fast forward to the present day and we have added two kids to our little family (a third currently inhabiting my womb) and are still going strong despite the ups and downs that all couples go through - you know... those days were you find yourself thinking "Argh, I could kick you in the face right now!" but instead of venting out with violence you just go and attack the fridge with your teeth. Oh the sandwiches I have hurt...

I've never regretted any decision I have made when it comes to relationships but the best one has to be deciding to spend my life with someone based on a certain character trait instead of the usual "falling in love" and putting up with the hurt because of love. I never thought in my life I would have married for anything less than love (quite a Western notion now that I think about it) and gone into an arranged marriage. I really feel like mine was arranged (although the difference being that it was arranged by myself and him). In a way it was quite business like but the love came incredibly fast and strong. Alhamdulilah. 

We got married in a local mosque. No wedding, no party, no guests, no family, no gifts. No white dress or feast afterwards. Just me, him, a couple of sheikhs and some random witnesses at the mosque after Isha prayer one night. It was so simple and straight to the point. I didn't even get wedding rings until a few years later. The lack of excess never bothered me. What was important was the relationship itself and the foundations it was built on. 

We all get married for a variety of reasons - love, companionship, money, status, family, lifestyle, etc. I'm curious as to what made you marry your spouse? Was there anything in particular that clinched the union for you?

Fab Favourites: Balqees Q8

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I began following Balqees on Instagram after seeing some of her elegant makeup posts; quickly discovering that she is a fellow hijab blogger. Blogging at BalqeesQ8, she regularly shares with her followers her unique style - a feminine mix of modest Western and bold Kuwaiti fashion trends. Check out some of her gorgeous pics below while finding out what her fab favourite things are.



Favourite Perfume/Scent:
Flora by Gucci& Encenc My'thique D'orient by Guerlain.

Favourite Food:
I'm a big fan of Italian food and can't resist a dark chocolate dessert.

Favourite Beauty/Makeup Brand:
Estēe Lauder, Guerlain, Makeup Forever, The Balm & Urban Decay.

Favourite Clothing Brand:
Roberto Cavalli, Kenzo, Versace& Zara.

Favourite Song:
For now my favourite song is "Rolling in the deep" by Adele.


Favourite Book:
Psychology books.

Favourite Blog:
I'm interesting in fashion & makeup blogs in general.

Favourite Travel Destination:
My Favourite destination ever is Dubai, UAE.

Favourite Hobby:
Painting.

Favourite TV Show/Movie:
TV Show: Dr OZ & Keeping up with the Kardashians.
Movie: The Devil Wears Prada.




You can keep up to date with Balqees via Instagram or through her blog. What is your favourite outfit she has worn? Personally, I am loving her lime-yellow top. Kuwaiti fashionistas always wear such bold, statement pieces that I wish I could pull off!

Saya & Manto

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When online shopping I tend to keep an eye out for maxi dresses and do a little dance inside my head when I see long sleeved versions only to have my heart broken into tiny shattered pieces when I take a look at the back of the dress to find it is basically split open to the wearer's crack from either the top or bottom of the dress. Classy, I know. 

I've wanted a simple black long sleeved maxi dress and while most people would be like "Uh, isn't that just an abaya?" I have to tell you it's not. Traditional abayas tend to be a lot looser and more draped and I really wanted more of a fitted design for a more modern, sleek look - something way more blendable in Australian culture. This design is pretty much it, fitted sleeves  with military style buttons included. 

The dress itself is from Peru based design label  Saya & Manto who tailor made it to my preferred measurements to ensure a perfect fit (although it won't fit for very long with this baby taking all my belly room - gonna have to buy massive kaftans as time goes by because I threw out all my old maternity stuff last year thinking "Oh I'm over the baby making. Don't need this anymore...". Mistake right there.). The quality of sewing is topnotch - this one well made dress. Loving the slight fishtail silhouette to the bottom of the dress; giving a little more shape to a garment that could have just as easily been a straight up and down affair.

Being black means it will suit anything you put with it and while it is so easy to go down the black on black route I decided to throw in some colour with a very bright, multi-coloured scarf via Egypt, an amber beaded necklace bought directly off the Nile and a recent clutch purchase from Dareen Hakim.

In regards to details, the otherwise simple dress is accentuated with discreet brass hued military style buttons on each of the fitted cuffs and at the back of the neck (which for the most part would stay hidden under your scarf depending on how you wore it unless you went for a turban look).

I think the dress is very office/work friendly as the matte material and overall simpleness of it supports a professional/formal environment.

Details + Links
Dress ~ Saya & Manto
Necklace ~ Egypt (similar)
Hijab ~ Egypt




The Trappings of Hijab

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You're damned if you do, you're damned if you don't.

How you dress should be a personal thing but for a lot of us it's not. I found before I wore hijab no one gave a shit as to how I dressed. Short skirt, long skirt, cleavage out, cleavage covered, heels, flats... no one ever once said anything about my attire beyond a "Oh I like what you're wearing. Where did you get it from?"

Wear a scarf on your head and all of a sudden the wolves are out to eat you, coming from both sides of the divide. Some non-Muslims (who clearly have no real understanding of Islam) attack you for being brainwashed, oppressed, pitiful, etc. Something to be saved and freed from the shackles of a male dominated religion that they ignorantly claim to know everything about. Some Muslims on the other hand analyse every part of your outfit and look for signs of perceived indecency:

All of a sudden your flared, loose pants are too tight. 
Someone over there thinks you shouldn't even wear pants. 
Holy crap, no you are not wearing a skirt! Heaven forbid!
I can see your fingers! Shame!
You're wearing a belt around your waist? Why?! 
Sister, you shouldn't wear colour. It attracts the men... and the seagulls.
I can hear your bracelet tinkling. You're haram.
Hair = Hell. You just bought your ticket, hussy.
Ah... unless you plan on wearing a thick, opaque black garbage bag from the head down with a couple of slits so you can breathe through your nose you are not coming into my home!
Please put some socks on under your sandals. Your feet skin offends me. 

I'm not making fun of the Islamic aspects of modesty. It's the people who claim to be a follower of our shared religion who think it is their sole mission on earth to destroy the inner soul of others by defeating and beating it down with criticism. These people take the fun out of wearing hijab. I know so many women who have chosen to stop wearing hijab and the main reason why they do it is the criticism they face from others for "never getting it right". Berating someone never brings out their best.

As a blogger and a person, I've only ever once in my life had someone truly come to me out of concern and tell me my dress wasn't appropriate. It was one of the first times I had ever prayed in a mosque and being a new Muslim with absolutely no support from anyone else I of course had no idea yet about what was indeed appropriate for a mosque. As I stood for prayer my top reached down to just above my knees. It was the longest top I owned. As I went down on my knees for sujood and bent forward the top naturally rode up, exposing my lower back for the row behind me to me. I didn't even notice but the lady behind me did and in an ever so sweet demeanour she very gently let me know that my top wasn't long enough for prayer. As someone who quite easily gets defensive when attacked I didn't feel at all rubbed the wrong way. I went home thankful for the advice and next time I went to that mosque I had something more appropriate ready.

Every other time someone has said anything to me (of course online) it has been in a state of criticism, negativity, childishness and nastiness. And to be honest, most of the time I don't even see their point of view. When it comes down to it we all have very different ideas and interpretations on how certain things in our religion should be practiced. That's the beauty of Islam - we are not an army of robots - we are a collective group of people spread throughout the world following a religion with hearts that belong to a myriad of different cultures and climates. We are not meant to be the same as each other. 

For someone to be completely covered in niqab, gloves and abaya isn't my idea of a good time but more power to you if that is your idea of modesty. Same goes for all the others who choose to dress differently to how I or anyone else dresses. 

We go on and on to others in protest about how hijab is a choice for us and yet after we finish yelling down at those who ignorantly judge us from a non-Muslim point of view we then begin to ignorantly judge those fellow hijabies around us for choosing to wear hijab in the way that they see fit. It's a massive hypocrisy. 

Just yesterday I was reading a Facebook discussion based around an anti-skinny jeans with hijab poster. One man decided that girls who wear skinny jeans are sluts. I was gobsmacked. All the other men and women on the forum naturally disagreed with him but it didn't change his point of view. Where did that ridiculous conclusion come from? How do form fitting pants dictate sexual activity?

I checked out his profile to see if he was even Muslim (he was) and saw pics of him and his wife - her long hair half covered with a scarf. For many that image isn't ideal and people with a similar mentality to his would have words to say about his wife. Would he like it? No. Would he agree to people word bashing his wife? Never. Yet it's fine for him to do the same to others. It made my blood boil. 

This is what it is like to be Muslim these days. No wonder it is so tough for women to be proud of what they are when everyone and their dog has something to say about it. So many people claim that it is hard to raise Muslim children in the West because of the differing values and distractions but I think that argument is completely null and void when our own community is slowly going down the sinkhole due to our own misguided perceptions and values. Women should be valued for their hearts and their minds, not their bodies... that's the whole point of hijab. Yet here we are negatively focused so much on what goes onto these bodies and how it is never good enough. 

I used to think "Argh, you can't win" before I realised that winning and losing is only imperative when you are playing a game or partaking in a competition of some sort. Deciding not to participate is not only easier, it is also sane-saving. So you think I don't dress appropriately to your standards? I'm not covered enough or I'm too covered? There's the door, honey. Take your opinions with you. I didn't ask for them and I never will.

I passed the point long ago where I got sick of defending myself and my choices to those who didn't like what I wore. It's far easier to focus on the positive. The times a non-Muslim has stopped me in the street or mall just to tell me I looked elegant, they liked my scarf or the way I dressed were really empowering. It truly is fantastic to have someone who might not understand why you dress the way you dress and doesn't need to say anything to you at all stop you in your tracks to share words of positivity. I just wish all Muslims could be like this because it seems our biggest opposition at times is ourselves. 

A Simple and Healthy Breakfast

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One of the crappier parts of being pregnant is all the rules and do nots of what goes into your mouth. It seems like all the good stuff is bad for the baby. Bye bye pepperoni pizza. See ya later sandwich bars. Sayonara to that second cup of coffee. Don't even get me started on anything that may contain raw egg, i.e. the best mayonnaise, aioli and gourmet ice-cream. 

Obviously any mother would rather avoid any of the risky foods in order to ensure a healthy baby so I'm not really complaining but I have to admit being a food watchdog when it comes to your meals gets rather annoying. I'm always finding myself having to google everything before I eat it just to be sure. For this reason I've stuck to more simpler sure to be safe meals at home.

I sometimes get sick of my usual milky tea and vegemite on toast (feels so unpatriotic and almost sacriligious admitting that) for breakfast so in order to mix things up a little I thought I'd do an all fruit affair. This is something I quickly concocted the other day for myself and two kids for breakfast and I loved the bright colour combo so much that I just had to share. 

As you can see it is just half a rockmelon (or cantaloupe if you're that way inclined) with the seeds scooped out and chunky bits of strawberries, kiwi fruit and green grapes shoved in it like a fruity-tooty bowl of healthiness. All three of us sat around the plate with a fork in hand (even the baby!) and dug in community style.

My mum used to make this for dessert when we were kids, except instead of piling fruit into the rockmelon bowl she would instead pile up the ice-cream. Both are delicious. 





In case anyone wants to know - both the plate and the table cloth are from Ikea. 
Ever have fruit salad for breakfast? What is usually on your morning plate?

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